Let it go.

Sometimes...you just gotta LET IT GO. It's no secret that 2015 has been a roller coaster of emotions for me. I went through an extremely difficult 5 months. I've learned a lot about myself and life in general this past year.

1.) Here's the biggest one. Let it go. You can't change the past. Holding onto certain emotions or people won't do you any good. It only makes it harder for you to move on with your life. That means go delete them off Facebook, Instagram, out of your phone, whatever it is that you used to communicate with them. You don't have to forget the memories, but you can't let those run the rest of your life. Focus on your future and being happy.

2.) Choose happiness. Choose to be happy. Choose to do what you love. Choose to have fun. Choose to enjoy life and the people around you. Choose to be adventurous. Choose to be spontaneous. Choose to do something you would have never thought you would do.

3.) Be open. Open to meeting new people, no matter what way you meet them. Whether it's through a friend, trying something new, or even a social media site. Meeting people who share common interests with you is the best way to move on from whatever you're trying to hold on to. Sometimes you just need a friend to talk to or a friend to hang out with. Don't go into friendships with other intentions in mind. The best relationships come from friendships. Let life happen.

4.) Positively try to be positive. Positivity is not something that comes naturally for me. *gasp* I've worked really hard on myself over the last few years to try and be more patient, a little kinder, and have a better attitude. With everything that has happened this year, I'm all about positive vibes. I'm all about trying to see the best in situations or people. Which is not something I typically do. So do your best to see yourself and others in a better light. Positivity is contagious.

And...

5.) I don't know a lot about love. I'm only 23 for goodness sake. I do know that I've had my heart broken and it was the worst feeling I've ever had. I also know that it was a learning experience. I've learned about what I want in the man I marry. What I expect from him. I've learned that I'm not going to settle for just anyone. Don't settle. Even if you're sad and alone, don't settle. There is someone who is meant for you. Someone who will love all the small things you do and all the silly things. Someone who will love the things you love, encourage you to chase your dreams, and help you chase them. You deserve someone who is going to love you, love your family, help you, stand up for you, fight for you, take care of you, encourage you, and be there for you. (Yes, this is all advice to myself)

I'd say I've gained some wisdom in 2015...even if it's not exactly the way I'd like to learn these things.















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