Hello Love...

Nothing like an OKC Thunder win & Kevin Durant coming back to put me in a good mood and want to write. (9-6...in case you were wondering.) So here it goes... Being single is both a blessing and a curse. I say it's a blessing and a curse simply because it can be the best thing to happen to you and it can absolutely suck at the same time. Being single is the perfect time to discover yourself, as cliche as that is, it's true. It gives you the chance to do what YOU love to do, and figure out what YOU want in life. When you're with somebody for a long period of time, or even short as it seems to go these days, you plan around them. You plan tomorrow, next week, next month, or even an entire lifetime. Sometimes you don't think about the things you want to do, but instead you think about the things BOTH of you want or you think about what THEY want. When you're single you have the chance to explore without someone questioning or keeping tabs on you. You learn to un...

Okay, so I originally dedicated this blog to girls/young women...but now it's changing. It's just a blog. No special dedication, no special anything really. It's for people to read and hopefully take something from my posts. So, enjoy. Tonight as I write this, I'm reminded of all the things I love. Why? Well, because I'm about to start watching my recording of Talking Dead and I just finished watching an OKC Thunder game (which we won, THUNDER UP! #wearethunder #getupgetloud ) and if you know me at all...you know how much I love that team. I even have a tattoo to prove it. No, I'm not one of those girls who watches basketball just to look at all the players, although it doesn't hurt that we have Steven Adams & Kevin Durant on our team :). I honestly love the game of basketball and I love all the guys on that team. So, with that being said...let's talk about love. I love the OKC Thunder, tattoos, Steven Adams (he's a handsome dude), re...

We all have a bad day, or a bad week, a bad month, and sometimes it just feels like the entire year has been horrible. I've certainly talked about how rough the year 2015 has been for me, it hasn't been easy. I do my best to keep my head up and stay positive, and it's pretty easy sometimes and other times it seems impossible. One thing I've known, but realized it more today than anything is, it's about loneliness. I'm tired of being alone. Not the "I need a boyfriend" type lonely, but the "I need a friend" lonely. Do you ever walk into a room and are surrounded by lots of people that care about you, but you still feel like you're completely alone? I've had a lot of people walk in and out of my life over the past years. I always do my best to stay in touch with everyone, I try and be the friend that you can talk to, I would always plan parties and such at my house, and I always end up getting burned in the end. There are people I haven...

I'm a very inconsistent blogger. Most of the time I don't think anyone actually reads this thing anyways. 2015: YOU HAVE NOT BEEN KIND TO ME. 2016: WHERE ARE YOU AT? Bring on the new. Bring on the change (even though I will hate every single second of that). Bring on meeting new people. Bring on the friends. Bring on the adventures. Bring on 2016. (I know it's still November, but I'm looking forward to getting out of this year)